We have made it past Valentine's Day! For the last five years, I have been out of the dating game so Valentine's Day has been just another day for me until yesterday. I'm single! Valentine's Day is not even a holiday that I recognized.
Recently, I have been bombarded by men, all different ages, from all different walks of life. I am clueless as to why within the last four months, I am being pursued so heavily. Of these gentlemen, I've become acquainted with one in particular. Now this gentlemen has presented himself as a single, successful, business man, with no baby mama drama. Does this sound to good to be true? That's because it is too good to be true. While getting to know this man on a more intimate level, I've discovered that he is "divorced", and has "two grown children." Now there goes strike one and two. I could have headed for the hills after learning those things about him, but everyone has a past right? Who am I to judge? I have a past, and have done some things that I should be smacked for, but I have never lied about my past, and I don't present myself falsely. I strongly feel that you do not spill your guts, and tell your whole life story when initially meeting someone, but do not lie. If something comes up that you feel uncomfortable discussing, then say that you don't want to discuss the topic this early into the relationship. Either the person accepts it, or they do not.
One thing I know about men is that they are hunters by nature. When a man sees something he wants he formulates a plan of attack. They use strategic methods to go about getting what they want especially if it is a woman. In order to get that woman, a man will DO ANYTHING, BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY! He's going to call everyday all day, take you out, compliment you, and try to fill your head with all kinds of foolery. Now let's fast forward back to my situation: the young man who I previously mentioned above has formulated a plan of attack on me. For the past three months he calls, he compliments, gives gifts, and so on and so forth EXCEPT YESTERDAY! Let me be clear, I don't expect this man to do anything for me, or buy me anything. He just does while he confesses his undying love for me (by any means necessary). So why is it on love day I hear nothing from him until 7:00pm? when he did call do you know what he said, " I was in church and with my mother all day. Also, my sons and I went out for Valentines Day." Sounds like he may be trying to live/lead two different lives. Did I accept his bull? HELL NO! I graciously let him know that he could keep that bulls**t in the commode, and that I will not play the mistress because the only role I play is First Lady!!!
Although I had to go through all of that drama with this one particular man, I did receive quite a few valentines gifts from other gentlemen. So all is not lost. When one apple becomes rotten, you just throw it out of the barrel, and get a new one.
Peace and Love
Recently, I have been bombarded by men, all different ages, from all different walks of life. I am clueless as to why within the last four months, I am being pursued so heavily. Of these gentlemen, I've become acquainted with one in particular. Now this gentlemen has presented himself as a single, successful, business man, with no baby mama drama. Does this sound to good to be true? That's because it is too good to be true. While getting to know this man on a more intimate level, I've discovered that he is "divorced", and has "two grown children." Now there goes strike one and two. I could have headed for the hills after learning those things about him, but everyone has a past right? Who am I to judge? I have a past, and have done some things that I should be smacked for, but I have never lied about my past, and I don't present myself falsely. I strongly feel that you do not spill your guts, and tell your whole life story when initially meeting someone, but do not lie. If something comes up that you feel uncomfortable discussing, then say that you don't want to discuss the topic this early into the relationship. Either the person accepts it, or they do not.
One thing I know about men is that they are hunters by nature. When a man sees something he wants he formulates a plan of attack. They use strategic methods to go about getting what they want especially if it is a woman. In order to get that woman, a man will DO ANYTHING, BY ANY MEANS NECESSARY! He's going to call everyday all day, take you out, compliment you, and try to fill your head with all kinds of foolery. Now let's fast forward back to my situation: the young man who I previously mentioned above has formulated a plan of attack on me. For the past three months he calls, he compliments, gives gifts, and so on and so forth EXCEPT YESTERDAY! Let me be clear, I don't expect this man to do anything for me, or buy me anything. He just does while he confesses his undying love for me (by any means necessary). So why is it on love day I hear nothing from him until 7:00pm? when he did call do you know what he said, " I was in church and with my mother all day. Also, my sons and I went out for Valentines Day." Sounds like he may be trying to live/lead two different lives. Did I accept his bull? HELL NO! I graciously let him know that he could keep that bulls**t in the commode, and that I will not play the mistress because the only role I play is First Lady!!!
Although I had to go through all of that drama with this one particular man, I did receive quite a few valentines gifts from other gentlemen. So all is not lost. When one apple becomes rotten, you just throw it out of the barrel, and get a new one.
Peace and Love